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Therapy surfaces unspoken and unresolved issues with precision, it leads you towards insights that give you a pathway forward.
\nMetacognition or the ability to think about thinking is the fundamental skill that makes therapy possible. Introspection and self reflection are gifts. Therapists use it to heal you and you can as well through journaling.
\nThis issue will cover:
\nHow to start journaling and never stop (Achieve)
\nStorytelling + Journaling to Heal Your Soul (Heal)
\nCheat Sheet to Journaling Approaches (Discover)
\n
\nAchieve (Get things Done)
\nHere are 2 principles that keep me going and 2 hacks that keep me interested:
\n
\nHeal (Fix What’s Broken)
\nMany great stories use the Three-Act Structure, which creates a natural cadence of swelling chaos that flows to calm resolution.
\nIt goes like this:
\nAct 1- The character wants something
\nAct 2- The character faces conflict
\nAct 3- The character overcomes
\n
\nThroughout my years of taking hundreds of people through a therapeutic process this story arch looks very similar.
\nI am currently combining therapeutic modalities like Narrative therapy, EMDR and Cognitive Behavioral therapy AND Three-Act Structure to create a course on helping creatives make journaling productive and create some core soul healing.
\nHere are the bullet points from the lesson:
\n1. Vomit into your journal. Write raw emotions/thoughts into your journal. This stage requires purposeful disorganization
\n2. Find the hero. You are the hero here. What do you really want? There is a version of you that wants to live outside of the chaos that you just described.
\n3. Rip it into pieces. Who told you what you think is actually the truth? It is time to look at where your definitions come from. Isolate the way history, culture, society, relationships have imprinted their definitions on how you perceive the problem in your story.
\n4. Find treasure in the rubble. You may come across new perspectives, insights and sobering truths. Save them!
\n5. Embrace and Declare the new. Embrace the version of you that defies the definition of the problem. Declare and affirm how you will continue to defy the problem.
\n
\nI'll be editing the course this week! Let me know if you are interested😃
\n
\nDiscover (Learn Something New)
\nThere are many approaches to Journaling. You just have to find the best format for you. Here are a few approaches. Dive in and decide what is the best format for you.
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\nJournal you heart out!
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I’m grateful for you!
Edvardo Archer
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\nP.S
\nWhenever you are ready, I created a course for you: Mood First Productivity: A System to Flow With Your Mood Into Productivity. It will help you build a system so your tasks and objectives can serve your mood and mental state. It's only 20 minutes. You can watch it along with any other course for free with your 30 day trial.
\nCheck it out here: https://skl.sh/3QU9aNf
\nIf you enjoyed that, please share this newsletter with others:
\nNewsletter.EdvardoArcher.com
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A biweekly newsletter for dreamers, builders and creators to achieve (get things done), heal (fix what’s broken) and discover (learn something new).
Therapy surfaces unspoken and unresolved issues with precision, it leads you towards insights that give you a pathway forward.
Metacognition or the ability to think about thinking is the fundamental skill that makes therapy possible. Introspection and self reflection are gifts. Therapists use it to heal you and you can as well through journaling.
This issue will cover:
How to start journaling and never stop (Achieve)
Storytelling + Journaling to Heal Your Soul (Heal)
Cheat Sheet to Journaling Approaches (Discover)
Achieve (Get things Done)
Here are 2 principles that keep me going and 2 hacks that keep me interested:
Heal (Fix What’s Broken)
Many great stories use the Three-Act Structure, which creates a natural cadence of swelling chaos that flows to calm resolution.
It goes like this:
Act 1- The character wants something
Act 2- The character faces conflict
Act 3- The character overcomes
Throughout my years of taking hundreds of people through a therapeutic process this story arch looks very similar.
I am currently combining therapeutic modalities like Narrative therapy, EMDR and Cognitive Behavioral therapy AND Three-Act Structure to create a course on helping creatives make journaling productive and create some core soul healing.
Here are the bullet points from the lesson:
1. Vomit into your journal. Write raw emotions/thoughts into your journal. This stage requires purposeful disorganization
2. Find the hero. You are the hero here. What do you really want? There is a version of you that wants to live outside of the chaos that you just described.
3. Rip it into pieces. Who told you what you think is actually the truth? It is time to look at where your definitions come from. Isolate the way history, culture, society, relationships have imprinted their definitions on how you perceive the problem in your story.
4. Find treasure in the rubble. You may come across new perspectives, insights and sobering truths. Save them!
5. Embrace and Declare the new. Embrace the version of you that defies the definition of the problem. Declare and affirm how you will continue to defy the problem.
I'll be editing the course this week! Let me know if you are interested😃
Discover (Learn Something New)
There are many approaches to Journaling. You just have to find the best format for you. Here are a few approaches. Dive in and decide what is the best format for you.
Journal you heart out!
I’m grateful for you!
Edvardo Archer
P.S
Whenever you are ready, I created a course for you: Mood First Productivity: A System to Flow With Your Mood Into Productivity. It will help you build a system so your tasks and objectives can serve your mood and mental state. It's only 20 minutes. You can watch it along with any other course for free with your 30 day trial.
Check it out here: https://skl.sh/3QU9aNf
If you enjoyed that, please share this newsletter with others:
Newsletter.EdvardoArcher.com
A biweekly newsletter for dreamers, builders and creators to achieve (get things done), heal (fix what’s broken) and discover (learn something new). I am a licensed clinician, purposefully provoking security in others.
Hey Reader, This isn’t one of those big dramatic announcements. No changes from what you have come to expect from me but for me this intentional move is huge. That’s what’s happening with this newsletter. I’m moving it from my previous email client (Kit) to Substack. Why? A few reasons. Substack is becoming a place where more and more of the kinds of thoughtful conversations I care about are happening. It’s built for community, and it gives me more room to experiment—more flexibility to play...
Achieve, Heal and Discover Issue #23 A biweekly newsletter for dreamers, builders and creators to achieve (get things done), heal (fix what’s broken) and discover (learn something new). Achieve: Dancing with Monsters Troubles, pains and sorrows are monsters that we must all fight. “Dancing with monsters” is the art of surviving the things we are not ready to overcome. Here is one strategy from my recent article “Dancing with Monsters” to help you navigate the threats that are intent on...
It’s time to give Mood First Productivity (MFP) the chance to expand and help more individuals! The feedback has been deeply encouraging. Here are some statements I’ve heard recently: "This tool was exactly what I needed today" "This idea has literally changed my life" "My eyes are opened to ways to honor my mental state" Within the small communities where MFP has been introduced, the Mood First Productivity tool has been opened 1406 times and counting, offering over 500 recommendations with...